As an unmarried father in Zoetermeer, you do not automatically have parental authority over your child. From 2023, upon recognition, you will receive joint parental authority with the mother, but for earlier recognitions, you must apply for this separately via the court.
Automatic Parental Authority from 2023
As of 1 January 2023, a father who recognises his child automatically receives joint parental authority with the mother. This applies only to recognitions after this date.
Applying for Parental Authority (for recognitions before 2023)
If you recognised your child before 2023, you must apply for parental authority separately at the District Court of The Hague, under which Zoetermeer falls:
Joint Application (with the mother's consent)
- Download and complete the 'Request for Joint Parental Authority' form.
- Have both parents sign the form.
- Send it to the District Court of The Hague.
- No hearing required; the parental authority will be registered in the parental authority register.
Unilateral Application (without the mother's consent)
- Submit a petition via a lawyer.
- Explain why parental authority is in the child's best interests.
- The court assesses your application.
- The mother may lodge an objection.
- The judge makes a decision.
Conditions for a Unilateral Application
The judge in The Hague will grant parental authority if:
- You have a clear bond with your child.
- Parental authority is in the best interests of the child.
- There are no risks to the child's well-being.
Consulting the Parental Authority Register
Parental authority is recorded in the court's parental authority register. This register is public and can be viewed via rechtspraak.nl or at the District Court of The Hague.
| Situation | Father's Parental Authority |
|---|---|
| Married at birth | Automatic |
| Registered partnership | Automatic |
| Recognition after 1-1-2023 | Automatic upon recognition |
| Recognition before 1-1-2023 | Apply at court |
Are there costs associated with applying for parental authority?
A joint application is free of charge. For a unilateral application, you pay court fees and lawyer's fees. With a low income, you may be eligible for subsidised legal aid via the Juridisch Loket Zoetermeer.What if the mother does not give permission for parental authority?
If the mother refuses, you can submit a unilateral application. The judge assesses whether parental authority is in the child's best interests. The mother's refusal alone is not grounds for rejection.What is the duration of the procedure?
A joint application is usually processed within a few weeks. A unilateral application takes an average of 3 to 6 months, depending on the case and involvement of agencies such as the Child Protection Board.Contact and Support in Zoetermeer
For legal assistance, you can go to the Juridisch Loket Zoetermeer. Proceedings regarding parental authority are handled by the District Court of The Hague. Ensure you have all required documents in order before submitting an application.