Applying for a divorce together via a joint petition is often faster, more affordable and less stressful than a unilateral application.
What does a joint petition entail?
A joint petition means that both partners jointly file the divorce petition. You have agreement on:
- The decision to divorce
- The division of property
- Any maintenance
- Arrangements regarding the children
What are the advantages?
| Advantage | Explanation |
|---|---|
| Lower costs | Only one lawyer needed, so lower expenses |
| Fast processing | Often settled within 3-6 months |
| Less conflict | No legal confrontation |
| No court hearing | Usually fully handled in writing |
Drafting the Divorce Settlement Agreement
With a joint petition, you together draft a divorce settlement agreement. It contains all agreements regarding:
- The division of assets and debts
- Maintenance for partner and/or children
- Pension arrangements
- A [parenting plan](https://rechtshulpdenhaag.nl/encyclopedie/ouderschapsplan-hoofdverblijf) if there are minor children
How does the procedure proceed?
- Record agreements together (possibly with the help of a mediator)
- A lawyer drafts the petition and settlement agreement
- Both parties sign
- The petition is filed with the court
- The judge reviews and pronounces the divorce
- Registration of the divorce with the municipality of Zoetermeer
Frequently Asked Questions about Joint Divorce
Can I still change my mind?
Yes, you can withdraw the petition as long as the judge has not yet ruled. After that, it is no longer possible.
Is a joint lawyer always neutral?
In a joint petition, the lawyer represents both parties. In case of disagreement, one of you must engage your own lawyer.
What if we no longer agree during the process?
If there is no longer agreement, the joint petition cannot proceed. A unilateral petition is then required.
Additional Questions and Answers
How long does a joint divorce in Zoetermeer take?
Typically, this process takes 3 to 6 months, depending on the workload at the District Court of The Hague and the complexity of your situation. A complete file prevents delays.
Do we have to go to court?
No, in most cases a hearing is not necessary. The judge handles the petition in writing, unless there are additional questions.
What if we disagree on a specific issue?
In case of disagreement, for example on maintenance, the joint petition cannot proceed. A unilateral petition is then the next step, where the judge decides.
Can we share one lawyer in Zoetermeer?
Yes, if there is agreement, you can jointly engage a lawyer, for example via the Juridisch Loket Zoetermeer. This saves costs, but in conflicts, a separate lawyer is needed.
What must be included in the settlement agreement?
The settlement agreement must contain agreements on assets, debts, maintenance, pensions and a parenting plan (if applicable). Clarity prevents future problems.
Is a mediator necessary?
No, it is not mandatory, but a mediator can help make agreements smooth and avoid conflicts, which can speed up the process in Zoetermeer.
What does a joint divorce cost?
The costs are often between €1,500 and €3,000, depending on the situation. This is cheaper than a unilateral petition due to sharing a lawyer and no hearing.